Simple, but profound.  Doesn't it always seem true that we can't live out two lives?  Even what we try to hide on the inside seeps out into our thoughts and actions.

So true.  I also think we will find evidence of our frame of mind everywhere.  If we are miserable, we will find good reason to be miserable without fail.  If we are constantly annoyed, we will find annoyances at every turn.  If we seek basic goodness,...