It really depends on the issue for me. Some things I have easily managed via path one and two, but the biggest and most valuable lessons in my life I have had to learn the bitter way. Great question.
I too have walked the path backwards. I wonder if anyone ever gets past this stage. Imitation is a great way to learn if something works for you, but it can't substitute for thinking.
I agree, imitation is a stepping stone. When I can see the value in something but just don't get it, I try imitating the action I don't get. Sometimes then, I can get a small feel of it to help me on my way. A very simple example would ...
Hello, pdas!Curiously enough I am simply using my name and a number I have loved my entire life. Found out recently that it represents death, change and the possibilities of the new - just as I have lived my life - dying every day to the previous day, changing (hope...