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24 April 08:49PM
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I read somewhere and it stuck in my thoughts that anyone's life and reality can be defined by their "nevers" and transformed radically by changing just one of those "nevers" (or two or all three). I don't know if this is true but it started me wondering about my "nevers" and more.

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12 May 11:36PM
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  How funny, if not clever...that whoever would resist saying neveris nevertheless all the while saying neverMORE...than ever!When I thought about this question I decided it helped me gain more self-knowlege.  I understood that having no more than three &qu...
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09 May 04:09PM
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1.  Never say "never."

2.  Never say "never."

3.  Never say "never."

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30 April 05:10AM
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Never is a word that just challenges fate.  I try to have a few nevers.

Never make choices based on my needs/wants alone.

Never knowingly do things that create ill things in the world or contribute to them.

Never quit caring. 

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26 April 09:16PM
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What an interesting question. Very thought provoking. I am not sure I can say that I have nevers.  I think I would my hypocrisy would get pointed out pretty quickly.  I could say: Never take those I love for granted.  But I do.  I could say: Never lose...
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25 April 06:07PM
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I have also read that...in fact, Anthony Robbins discusses it quite a bit in his strategies for changing expectations and behavior.  In that context, changing our "nevers" is a healthy process by which we can truly change our lives. However, I think th...
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24 April 10:09PM
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Several of my most unfavorable past situations began with a never, so I tend to agree that anyone's life and reality can be defined or at least affected by our nevers.  At this point in my life I avoid never like the plague.
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24 April 09:16PM
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Maybe there are fewer or more or no "nevers" and this was just meant to start some wondering!  What about the "maybes" in anyone's life?  Maybe the "maybes" would define parameters just as well (from a different a...
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24 April 09:09PM
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For me this is a confounding question.  I am so accustomed to staying flexible.  I would never...?????...WOW!  What would I never (knowingly, on purpose) do?  It might make my life more intentional to know three defin...
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24 April 08:55PM
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I wonder if everyone has three nevers.  I often say "Never say never!" but in truth I do say never.  This makes me realize I have "nevers" within my self I don't even know about! 
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