Wisdomology: can someone not like you when they haven't...

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21 April 04:52PM

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cause it's happening to me and others as well.

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triara 22 April 09:35AM	MORE \| REPLY \| REPORT \| MARK THIS INSPIRING
They can dislike what they THINK you are like. Many people never actually see others, just their idea of them.

Abbs 22 April 05:49PM	REPLY \| REPORT \| MARK THIS INSPIRING
well some peoples ideas are messed up then!

triara 23 April 03:28AM	REPLY \| REPORT \| MARK THIS INSPIRING
yep and it just might explain the current state of the planet.

Cedar 22 April 10:01PM	REPLY \| REPORT \| MARK THIS INSPIRING
and that is why we are okay with being different and unaccepted by them... we aren't like that!

Cedar 21 April 11:00PM	MORE \| REPLY \| REPORT \| MARK THIS INSPIRING 1 inspiration
Who people dislike or like has more to do with themselves than with you. People have a set belief system that they have learned to identify with. For example, I grew up being hated (yes hated) by the Indians because I was white and hated by the whites because I was ...

Abbs 22 April 05:13AM	MORE \| REPLY \| REPORT \| MARK THIS INSPIRING
yeah i guess so...but it still hurts and is total unlogical to do to people when you have really even tried to get to know them at all!

Cedar 22 April 09:59PM	MORE \| REPLY \| REPORT \| MARK THIS INSPIRING
The secret is to stop trying to change them and change yourself. The only reason it hurts is because you suspect they may be right. Now how logical is that? When you TRULY know yourself what others say won't make a difference to you.

LiveLaughLove 22 April 09:16PM	MORE \| REPLY \| REPORT \| MARK THIS INSPIRING
keep in mind that people are not logical, and that it is the experience (or lack of experience) that produces a perspective and thus a result (in this case a disconnect). If someone has no experience of being open and allowing for another, that is their loss. ...

triara 22 April 09:38AM	MORE \| REPLY \| REPORT \| MARK THIS INSPIRING 1 inspiration
Problem is, they think they already know from the beginning and avoid letting reality puncture that illusion. "Dont confuse me with the facts".

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