I think our heart knows what we long for and need and projects it onto sometimes unlikely people or situations. The head lets us know it ain't the real thing, not yet. But we still mourn the loss of the dream we built. In order to get the reality, it...
In emotionally-charged situations, I would want to buy time by taking a step back and thinking logically first about the pros and cons of my decision, using my head. I would then pay much attention to that feefback. If the decision makes sense to my head, I'll go ahea...