this thought gives me more insight of what is really happening in my head. sometimes i fall in love and not long after that i fall out of love. i know that was not infatuation because i felt the love and there was no urgency which distinguish itself from falling in love. to me this apply to more then human to human relationship. for instant, i would LOVE to play guitar and after playing for 7 years and being pretty good at it, i just lost interest and move on to paintings and few years after that, same things happened. i think there is no such thing as love, they're all lust and we just simply give that a name - love, when we "want" to appreciate it more.