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16 November 08:35AM
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I am in a wonderful blessed friendship which has helped me become the person i am today. However, everyone in my friend's life is against this friendship. she says that if they don't support her, they were never really in her liife to begin with, but i can see that standing up for me is slowly breaking her heart. We mean so much to each other and help and pray for each other so mch that we don't want to stop this friendship. I need to know whether it is now time to let go, to protect my friend, or whether i should continue fighting for something that has had an enormous impact on both our lives. this question has been circling my head for a few weeks, and i have not managed to find an adequate answer, perhaps you could help?

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05 December 07:35PM
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Someone asked me when I knew it was time for me to get a divorce.  My answer:  When it hurts more to love than it is to leave it is time to leave.Only you know when the time has come to move on but you will always still hold the person in your heart and prayers ...
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21 November 11:31AM
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There is never the time to hold on; so let go of what?
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18 November 12:48PM
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Honestly dear I believe that in the midst of situations like this, you must be still. Resist the instinct to fight against your perceived negative input regarding your friendship and allow God to speak to you. Giving yourself some space and allow time to give you reflecti...
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17 November 05:49PM
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This is a deeply emotionally charged question for me, as close to a situation I have lived too. Continuing to fight for your friendship may not be the answer; but letting go of it, may be more appropriate in reaching what you both desire for one another... Which, I assume...
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11 March 04:36PM
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( May be worth sharing that this friendship did eventually come back to be; refreshed and purified from all its emotional negative charges which originally had created so many obstacles. Stronger and more authentically rooted in respect and unconditional love no...
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16 November 03:42PM
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Dear Serendipity,Your question is such a good one and the circumstances in which it unfolds for you seem quite tangled and difficult. I can't begin to answer the specific question that you ask, since it is probably a much longer story than you could possibly rela...
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25 November 09:55AM
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thank you lauren! i did as you suggested and the very next morning, the family drove through to where will live to sort out the conflict between us. Although there are still some unresolved feelings, we are on a road to recovery, with my frinedship intact and my friend re...
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25 November 03:59PM
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Dear Serendipity,

 

I am so glad to know that a Divine Breeze has blown through your life and brought you refreshment.  Thank you for letting me know.   

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