There's an old saw, “Put five (you pick) in a room and ask them what they want for lunch and you'll get eight answers because three of them can't make up their mind!” I first heard of this back in the early 70s. I saw its first “practical app...
This is true. I think we really hamstring ourselves by trying to conform and fit into the group. Being a rampant introvert, I usually just do things on my own. I get more done that way.