I always think that perhaps they are avoiding the thing they are really angry at. Maybe because of fear. So they vent their anger in other ways. Childish and stupid. Those they scorn and belittle would probably sit and listen and maybe help them fi...
Yes; that's it: fear. Crippling them and wounding innocent others who, as you say, may have helped them somehow. It's been said that we only attack what we fear. We should strive to have compassion and unconditional love for all of God's crea...
